💺 Intro: Travel’s Back—But Are Our Manners?
The flights are full, the airports are chaotic, and “gate lice” (you know, those passengers hovering at the gate 30 minutes too early) are alive and well. We’re seeing everything from mid-flight TikTok dances to passive-aggressive armrest wars—and it’s giving ✨main character syndrome✨ in all the worst ways.
So what’s actually acceptable on planes now—and what’s a no-go, no matter how many followers you have?
We’re breaking down the do’s and definitely-don’ts of modern airline etiquette so you can fly stylishly, smartly, and yes—sanely—in 2025.
🚫✈️ What’s NOT Acceptable Anymore
1. Seat-Swapping Shenanigans
Yes, we all want the window seat. But unless you’re offering a clear upgrade (like aisle for middle or economy for exit row), asking someone to swap after they’ve settled in is borderline rude.
“Once someone’s in their seat, it’s their domain. Unless it’s for family with small kids or a legitimate reason, don’t make it awkward,” says travel coach Jill Wellington, founder of Upgrade Unlocked.
Real Talk: If you want to sit together, plan ahead. Airlines literally sell the privilege of selecting your seat now.
2. Personal Hygiene Offenses (Yes, This Is Still a Thing)
Bare feet on bulkheads. DIY pedicures mid-flight. Overpowering cologne. Please stop.
“The plane is not your living room—or your bathroom,” says etiquette expert Elaine Swann. “Be aware of your scent, your space, and your sound.”
Quick Rule: If it involves nail clippers, shoes off, or spraying anything in a metal tube 30,000 feet up—it’s a no.
3. Reclining Without a Care
Seat reclining remains one of the most hotly debated in-flight behaviors. The rule? Be considerate.
✅ Yes, you’re allowed to recline.
🚫 No, you shouldn’t slam it back right after takeoff, especially during meals.
“Reclining is a right—but how you do it matters,” says @JetSetPsych, a popular travel behaviorist on Instagram. “Check behind you, and always recline slowly.”
✅ What’s Still Totally Cool (and Even Encouraged)
1. Noise-Canceling Headphones = In-Flight Hero
Whether it’s a baby crying or an overly chatty row-mate, having good headphones (and respecting others who use them) is peak travel etiquette.
Tip from a flight attendant: “If someone’s wearing headphones, that’s the international sign for ‘Please no small talk.’ Respect it.”
2. Kindness to Crew—It Travels Far
Flight attendants have seen it all. A kind word, eye contact, and a smile can seriously change the energy in the air.
“You wouldn’t believe how rare basic kindness has become,” says veteran Delta crew member Monique R., “The passengers who say ‘thank you’ are the ones we remember.”
3. Aisle Awareness
Keep your bag, elbows, and limbs out of the aisle. This isn’t a yoga studio, sis.
Also, let’s rethink how we deplane. Don’t push past rows. If you’re in 24C, you’re not beating row 9 out the door. Period.
👜 Bonus: What to Pack for Polite Travel Vibes
- Reusable water bottle (refill post-security)
- Face mist or wipes (quietly used, no spritzing neighbors)
- Kindle or paperback (because not everyone wants to hear your rom-com)
- Small thank-you card or treat for flight attendants (trust me—they’ll remember you)
🛬 In Summary: Don’t Let Your Manners Miss the Flight
The skies may be busier, but courtesy is still chic. Good etiquette isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being aware. Of others. Of space. Of the fact that everyone’s just trying to get to their destination with a shred of dignity intact.
So next time you’re buckling up, ask yourself: Am I a seatmate people would book again? If yes—you’re doing airline etiquette right.
