About Us
What iFocusLiving Is
iFocusLiving is a lifestyle platform for intentional people who want clarity, confidence, and a life that feels good to live.
It started in 2018 as a personal blog called 3Sides@Solari, a space for real conversations about the human experience. The joyful chaos, the hard lessons, the quiet pivots, and the moments that shape us.
Over time, that blog evolved into iFocusLiving, a home for anyone who wants to live with more intention without losing their ambition, creativity, or personality.
Here we explore the full life, including:
emotional wellness and burnout-aware living
motherhood, identity shifts, and family transitions
personal growth that is practical, not performative
style, beauty, travel, and everyday joy as part of wellbeing
reinvention, creativity, and building a life with purpose
iFocusLiving is not about doing more.
It is about living better, on purpose.
A Little More About Me
I currently live in Indianapolis, Indiana, where I’m raising a beautiful family with my husband.
Professionally, I have over a decade of experience in sales and marketing in major corporate environments. That world taught me a lot about performance, pressure, leadership, and what happens when people build lives around expectations instead of alignment.
Today, I do my best work at the intersection of content, community, and clarity frameworks.
I write, build, and teach in a way that helps people reset their energy, refocus their attention, and live with bold, clear intention.
One focused step at a time.
The Pattern That Led to The Mirror Method
As I grew in my career and life, I started noticing something consistent in high performers.
Most people were not struggling because they lacked motivation.
They were struggling because they were trying to carry everything while staying “fine.”
They were capable.
Reliable.
Good at handling pressure.
They were also quietly drained.
Not always in a dramatic way. In a daily way. The kind that shows up as mental noise, short patience, low creativity, and a constant feeling of being behind even when you are doing a lot.
I needed something that did not just inspire me.
I needed something that helped me see clearly and reset my life from the inside out.
That is where The Mirror Method came from.
What The Mirror Method Is
The Mirror Method is a structured clarity reset for high functioning professionals who feel stretched thin, distracted, or quietly burned out.
It is built for the person who is doing a lot, but feels like their life is running them.
It helps you:
identify where your energy is leaking
reduce the hidden cost of constant availability
rebuild boundaries that protect your focus
reset your rhythm so your life feels sustainable
move forward with aligned action, not more pressure
This is not a motivational pep talk.
It is a way to pause long enough to tell the truth about what is not working, then build a plan that fits your real life.
If iFocusLiving is the ecosystem, The Mirror Method is the engine.
What I Believe
I believe burnout is often a system problem, not a character flaw.
I believe clarity is a form of freedom.
I believe you can be ambitious and still live gently.
I believe your life should not just look successful.
It should feel like yours.
What You'll Find Here
This isn’t another lifestyle site. It’s a life-in-progress site.
At iFocusLiving, we believe wellness starts with mindset and radiates into every area of your life—from what you eat, to how you parent, to the way you show up in your skin and your inbox.
Here’s what we’re obsessed with (and what you’ll see often):
Health & Nutrition
We decode wellness trends, simplify science-backed habits, and share delicious, nourishing recipes—minus the guilt and perfectionism.
Style & Beauty
Real-life fashion that fits your vibe and your body. Clean beauty, effortless looks, and self-care that actually feels good.
Travel & Experiences
From solo soul-searching trips to kid-friendly escapes, we focus on meaningful travel that restores and inspires.
Parenting & Motherhood
Raw, real talk about raising humans while remembering yourself. Think fewer rules, more grace.
Hobbies & Creativity
Whether you’re painting, gardening, or finally learning guitar, we believe creativity heals and connects us to our joy.
Personal Growth
Mindset shifts. Boundaries. Spiritual wellness. Identity evolution. It’s all part of becoming the version of you that feels most aligned.
Our Vibe?
Honest, human, a little witty, and totally down-to-earth. We’re not here to preach perfection—we’re here to walk with you as you refine, rebuild, and reimagine your life on your terms.
We’re not afraid to be a little woo, a little wise, and a lot real.
Let’s Grow Together
Every article, podcast, video, and newsletter is written with the hope that something clicks for you—whether it’s a new ritual, a healed belief, or just the feeling that you’re not alone in trying to do life better.
We’re so glad you’re here.
Now, let’s focus on what truly matters.
With clarity & love,
The iFocusLiving Team