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About Us

Meet the Founder

Susan Olubunmi Raji | #IamSoLaRi

Hi, I’m Susan—creator of iFocusLiving, a lifestyle platform born from curiosity, compassion, and a craving for intentional living.

What started in 2018 as 3Sides@Solari—a humble blog sparking honest conversations—has evolved into a dynamic space where wellness, purpose, and personal power come together. I launched it as a hub to challenge the status quo and celebrate every side of the human experience—from joyful chaos to personal breakthroughs.

Today, iFocusLiving is more than just content. It’s a movement. A place where real stories meet real growth, and where women (and anyone craving a more focused life) can feel seen, supported, and inspired to live better, not busier.

With over a decade of experience in Sales and Marketing across major corporations, I’ve learned that true impact isn’t about the hard sell—it’s about human connection. I believe transformation happens when we lead with empathy, show up with truth, and stay focused on what truly matters.

I’m passionate about bridging content, community, and conversation. Whether we’re exploring wellness, fashion, parenting, or self-growth, I’m here to help you reconnect with your values and live with bold, clear intention.

I currently live in Indianapolis, Indiana, where I’m proudly raising a beautiful family with my husband. I write, build, dream, and continue learning—focused step at a time.

Let’s build something beautiful together.
#iFocusLiving #IamSoLaRi

Welcome to iFocusLiving

We started iFocusLiving with one goal in mind: to help you live a life that’s not just full, but focused. In a world that constantly pulls us in a hundred directions, clarity has become the ultimate luxury. Whether you’re juggling motherhood, chasing career goals, or just trying to feel more “you” in the everyday chaos, we created this space for you.

Because here’s the truth: the life you want? It’s not out of reach. You just need focus, with a splash of joy and a whole lot of intention.

Why iFocusLiving?

We don’t just blog. We live this.

We’re the moms sneaking veggies into smoothies while packing lunches. We’re the entrepreneurs drafting business plans at 1 a.m. with deep conditioner in our hair and a dream in our hearts. We’re the hobbyists, the healers, the side-hustlers, and soul-searchers—unapologetically navigating health, beauty, purpose, and play.

iFocusLiving was born out of those moments when we realized: what we focus on multiplies. So we chose to focus on what truly matters.

What You'll Find Here

This isn’t another lifestyle site. It’s a life-in-progress site.

At iFocusLiving, we believe wellness starts with mindset and radiates into every area of your life—from what you eat, to how you parent, to the way you show up in your skin and your inbox.

Here’s what we’re obsessed with (and what you’ll see often):

Health & Nutrition

We decode wellness trends, simplify science-backed habits, and share delicious, nourishing recipes—minus the guilt and perfectionism.

Style & Beauty

Real-life fashion that fits your vibe and your body. Clean beauty, effortless looks, and self-care that actually feels good.

Travel & Experiences

From solo soul-searching trips to kid-friendly escapes, we focus on meaningful travel that restores and inspires.

Parenting & Motherhood

Raw, real talk about raising humans while remembering yourself. Think fewer rules, more grace.

Hobbies & Creativity

Whether you’re painting, gardening, or finally learning guitar, we believe creativity heals and connects us to our joy.

Personal Growth

Mindset shifts. Boundaries. Spiritual wellness. Identity evolution. It’s all part of becoming the version of you that feels most aligned.

Our Vibe?

Honest, human, a little witty, and totally down-to-earth. We’re not here to preach perfection—we’re here to walk with you as you refine, rebuild, and reimagine your life on your terms.

We’re not afraid to be a little woo, a little wise, and a lot real.

Let’s Grow Together

Every article, podcast, video, and newsletter is written with the hope that something clicks for you—whether it’s a new ritual, a healed belief, or just the feeling that you’re not alone in trying to do life better.

We’re so glad you’re here.

Now, let’s focus on what truly matters.

With clarity & love,
The iFocusLiving Team